Scholarships for Children of Single Parents

Scholarships for Children of Single Parents

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You’re a proud single parent of a soon-to-be high school graduate.  How will you finance your child’s college education?  The good news is there is financial help out there in the form of scholarships.  Depending on your circumstances you can search and find many scholarships to apply for that will help with the cost of sending your child to college.

To get you started in your search for scholarships for your college bound child, I’ve listed 10 scholarships for children of single parents.

1. American Legion Legacy Scholarship

Each year, the American Legion offers the Legacy Scholarship to provide a $37,000 stipend that can cover tuition, textbooks, and other living expenses for college students whose parent was killed while serving our country. Candidates must be the biological or legally adopted children of United States Armed Services members who died in active duty on or after 9/11. Eligible high school seniors and graduates should be enrolling for undergraduate studies at an accredited higher learning institution in America.
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American Legion Legacy Scholarship

2. Ava’s Grace Foundation Scholarships

Ranging in value from $3,000 to $5,000 apiece, the Ava’s Grace Scholarship Foundation (AGSF) distributes annual awards for up to four scholars across the state of Missouri who are being raised by a single parent while the other serves prison time. Qualified candidates must be U.S. citizens, exhibit financial need, achieve a minimum cumulative GPA of 2.5, be enrolling in an accredited non-profit college, be seeking their first degree, and have a parent incarcerated in a U.S. state or federal penitentiary.
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Ava’s Grace Foundation Scholarship

3. Ayo and Iken Children of Divorce Scholarship

Founded by a group of Florida divorce attorneys, the Ayo and Iken Children of Divorce Scholarship is presented annually for $1,000 to graduating high school seniors in Florida who live in a single parent family divided by divorce. Eligible applicants must plan to pursue post-secondary education after graduation, have parents permanently separated or divorced, and write a 2,000-word essay describing how their parents continue to show their love despite being part of a separated household.
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Ayo and Iken Children of Divorce Scholarship



4. Carolina Covenant Scholarship

For students from single parent households who are enrolling at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, the Carolina Covenant Scholarship is available to potentially cover 100 percent of tuition costs for a maximum of four years and provide a laptop computer. Qualified candidates must be considered dependents, maintain full-time enrollment status, be pursuing their first bachelor’s degree, make satisfactory academic progress, have U.S. citizenship, and come from a low-income family that does not exceed federal poverty guidelines.
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Carolina Covenant Scholarship

5. David J. Ewing Scholarship Fund

In honor of a beloved father of two who lost his battle with cancer in 1990 at the youthful age of 36, the David J. Ewing Scholarship Fund was created by the University of North Texas to award tuition assistance to currently enrolled full-time undergraduate students who have lost a parent during their working years. Along with the application, candidates must submit two letters of professional recommendation, official high school transcripts, financial aid reports, and a two-page essay on their educational goals.
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David J. Ewing Scholarship Fund

6. Families of Freedom Scholarship Program

Based on a financial need formula, the Families of Freedom Scholarship Program provides annual awards to dependent children of 9/11 victims, including World Trade Center workers, Pentagon employees, airplane crew or passengers, emergency medical personnel, firefighters, and law enforcement officers killed in the tragic terrorist attacks. Eligible applicants must be enrolling in an accredited post-secondary program at a vocational school, community college, or university in the United States before their 24th birthday.
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Families of Freedom Scholarship Program

7. Heroes Tribute Scholarship

Through the Marine Corps Scholarship Foundation (MCSF), the Heroes Tribute Scholarship is granted to provide $7,500 for up to four years to children of Marines and Navy Corpsmen who were killed in combat operations on or after September 11, 2001. Eligible applicants must be planning to attend an accredited undergraduate college in the upcoming fall, maintain a minimum cumulative GPA of 2.0, be pursuing their first bachelor’s degree, and have been raised by a single parent with an adjusted gross income under $94,000.
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Heroes Tribute Scholarship



8. Iraq and Afghanistan Service Grants

Administered through the U.S. Department of Education, the Iraq and Afghanistan Service Grants are given annually for over $5,300 to college students raised by a single parent or guardian after a parent was killed in military service performed in Iraq or Afghanistan after the events of 9/11. Qualified candidates must be under 24 years old, plan to enroll in an accredited American college at least part-time, meet the Federal Pell Grant eligibility requirements, and have grieved the death of a parent in the U.S. Armed Forces.
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Iraq and Afghanistan Service Grants

9. Jackie Spellman Foundation Scholarships

In loving memory of a 24-year-old who lost her battle with acute myeloid leukemia (AML) after 14 months of painful treatments, the Jackie Spellman Foundation offers scholarships for $1,000 to $5,000 to graduating high school seniors or college students who have lost a parent from leukemia or lymphoma. Eligible candidates must plan to enroll full-time in college, have critical financial need, carry a minimum overall GPA of 3.0, and write an 800-word essay explaining how leukemia or lymphoma has forever changed their life.
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Jackie Spellman Foundation Scholarships

10. JoAnn Heffernan Heisen Scholarship

On the basis of academic merit and financial need, the JoAnn Heffernan Heisen Scholarship is granted annually at Syracuse University for $500 to $1,570 to currently enrolled undergraduate students raised within single parent households who need financial assistance to participate in a study abroad program. Along with a completed application, students must submit a one-page essay stating how studying overseas will help them reach their academic, personal, and career objectives in today’s global community.
Contact:
JoAnn Heffernan Heisen Scholarship

This list is only a portion of the scholarships that you can find out there to help in assisting you with funding your child’s college education.  So keep researching to get the most scholarship assistance you can for your child.

10 Single Parent Quotes

10 Single Parent Quotes

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Here are 10 anonymous quotes about being a single parent.  I hope they encourage you.

1. I didn’t set out to be a single parent.  I set out to be the best parent that I can be … and that hasn’t changed.

2. Being a single parent is twice the work, twice the stress, and twice the tears; but it’s also twice the love, twice the hugs and twice the pride.

3. There is nobody stronger than a single parent.

4. As a single parent, some days you have no idea how you’re going to do it.  But every single day it still gets done.

5. Being a single parent is hard.  But it’s better to be a parent by yourself than to do it with someone who doesn’t want to be a parent at all.



6. When the wrong people leave your life, the right things start to happen.

7. Anyone can have a child and call themselves a parent.  But a real parent is someone who puts that child above their own selfish wants and needs.

8. I’m a single parent.  What’s your Super Power?

9. I pretend that being a single parent isn’t as hard as people say; but it’s the hardest loneliest struggle I’ve every been through.

10. Being a single parent made me stronger than ever before.

Single Parent Families Today

Single Parent Families Today

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Single Parent Families

Today being the head of a single parent family is more common than the so called traditional family. The traditional family was defined as a mother, father and children. Today we see all sorts of ‘families’ including many single parent families. And even within the category of single parent family we see a range of mothers, fathers and even extended family members raising children as a single parent. Today none of this is unusual.

Single Parent Life

Life in a single parent household today is quite common, but it can be very stressful for the parent and the children. It can be hard not having a partner to share the responsibilities of paying the bills, taking care of the children, and doing the chores. You have all of the parental responsibility in additional to working full time. And it’s no secret that many single parent families have less financial resources than two parent households, which can make single parent family life more stressful.

In addition to all of the above, single parent families can sometimes experience added stressors that two parent families typically don’t experience.

Unique Situations that Cause Stress in Single Parent Families

  • Visitation and custody problems can lead to fractured emotional bonds and expensive legal bills.
  • Potential for conflict with non-custodial parent over different parenting styles.
  • Quality time with children can be hard to come by.
  • Disruptions of extended family relationships can feel alienating.
  • Potential problems when the parent starts to pursue new relationships

Single Parent Family Success

Single parent families can be successful. The best way to succeed at single parenting is to try to get along with your children’s other parent if possible. Also reach out to other single parents. Build up your support team. There are groups that you can join in your communities and churches. Strengthen the bonds with your extended family members as well. Don’t try to do it alone. Accept help and assistance from others. And give back where you can.

Tell us about your single parent success stories.

What Challenges do Single Parents Face?

What Challenges do Single Parents Face?

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Single Parent Challenges

As a single parent you face many challenges when you are the primary caretaker for your children. Even if you’re receiving child support from the other parent, single parenting is not easy.  Whether you chose to become a single parent, or had single parenthood thrust on you, the effects of being a single parent can be long term and difficult to overcome. Single parents must contend with many challenges such as financial, social, emotional, and logistical issues.  How well we deal with these issues will directly effect how well the child from a single parent household adjusts.

Single Parent Money Issues

The majority of single parents are faced with financial challenges. If you are a single parent due to a divorce, you’ve experienced how divorce divides the family’s resources and splits it into two households. Many single parents have a difficult time collecting financial support for their children.  But even with child support, making ends meet can be an ongoing challenge.  Add to that, single parents who do not have a strong support system are not able to work overtime, or take on a second source of income due to family responsibilities. This can put many single parent households in a real bind.

Single Parents Emotional Issues

Single parents face emotional challenges. The reasons that many parents become single parents are, by nature, emotionally taxing. The sudden death of a spouse; divorce, or the birth of an unexpected baby outside of a marriage all take an emotional toll on a single parent. Having support such as friends and family is very important. You can also find support through local agencies and church organizations. Trying to go it alone as a single parent can lead to depression. As a single parent you need to work through your emotional issues so that you are healthy enough to help your children deal with the emotional upheaval they are going through.

Single Parents and Logistics

As the primary parent you really need to learn how to become a single parent logistical wizard. To provide financially and emotionally for their children, single parents typically work full-time and are either dropping their children off early at child care or school; and picking them up late. Single parents must have jobs that will allow them to leave work for sick children, doctors appointments, parent conferences and school performances. Coordinating and executing all of these logistical issues can be exhausting. Being very organized and having back up plans can really help to reduce the stress that a single parent feels.

What Every New Single Parent Should Know about Finances

What Every New Single Parent Should Know about Finances

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Get a Grip on Single Parent Finances Now

If you’ve recently become a single parent due to divorce or the death of a spouse, here’s the basics of what you need to know and do to secure your financial health now and in the future.

Your Best First Action may be Inaction

Emotions, such as shock, anger, sadness, denial and grief can affect your ability to make good decisions about your best long-term financial interests. Give yourself six months to a year to work through your feelings before you begin making major financial decisions.  If you need to make financial decisions sooner, enlist a trusted family member to help you make clear headed decisions.  Hire a reputable financial advisor to help you make sound decisions.

Dealing with Large Sums of Money

If you’ve inherited a large sum of money, for example a life insurance policy death benefit, talk with a financial advisor about the best place to deposit those dollars over the short term to give yourself time to process your new situation.

Make Sure that Short Term Responsibilities are Taken Care of

Although you may feel overwhelmed by your current situation, it’s important that you take care of your current basic monthly financial obligations.  You don’t want to ruin a good credit rating:

  • Close joint banking accounts and credit cards and, when appropriate, open new ones in your name.
  • Stay up to date on your bills. If you aren’t already signed up for auto pay, now is a good time to start.
  • Update your beneficiary designations and contact information on your financial and legal documents.

Dealing with Financial Hardship

If you all of a sudden find yourself financially strapped, look for opportunities to live on less. Look at your monthly expenses and see what you can live without.  Many of our expenses seem like necessities, but they really aren’t.  The following expenses can be cut until your financial situation improves:

  • Bundled cable, land line phone, and WIFI services.  You really only need the WIFI.
  • Movie, magazine and newspaper subscriptions.  Rent a movie from Red Box on occasion instead.
  • Take a hard look at your cell phone package and see if you can cut some of the cost.
  • Hairdressers, masseuses, nail salons are all non-essential.  We learned this from the pandemic.

Moving into Your New Normal

As hard as it may be to find yourself as a new single parent, you will adapt and find your balance in time.  But until then know that there will be adjustments along the way.  And if you have financial questions consult a financial professional. He or she can help you establish a financial strategy to help meet your needs now and for the future.